可唔可以自己lum下先...
我唔知, 我唔識, 我唔體會那種壓力與煩惱,
因為我唔係你, I really dont know how u used to get along with ur mum.
u said u feel guity... then please do something to get rid of that fucking feeling.
I dont really see the delimma that u pointed out, I feel hurt, at the moment u spoke those words,
sooo painful. hey come on, I dont know, mayb I m the one who did wrong and who think in a wrong way...
u feel guilty coz u think u are not really doing by ur heart? not in good faith? or what? U dont feel urself is reasponsible enough on being a son?
yes, u have to care about her! that's absolutely correct, but if u are not doing absolutely obeying what she expects, that means u are not caring about her, u are not reasponsible son? I dont see the point...
I dont want to say anything on it, coz I am hving a sensitive role, I dont know what to say, ...but in the end, if u really feel guilty, just do something that could make u feel urself is a good son in order to get rid of that fucking guilty feeling...
on the other hand, I dont want to say ur mum is having a wrong concept, but perhaps I could say it is not well-accepted in the modern society, sorry I dont want to make u feel I am critizising ur mother, coz I really respect her. anyways, I am not blaming on anything, I just want to tell u actually u need not to be feeling guilty coz u two has two totally different mentalities and dont put urself to fit ur mom's shoe! actually u are doing so otherwise u wont feel guilty, unless u are doing anything in good faith so far.